To all those boys, guys, man and old men or even the small kids who have loved or may
love the opposite gender that is a girl or woman in their entire life. Sometimes love comes too easy just to make you realize it is really to keep with, Once it is gone you are to cope up with it on your own risk putting your personal stake.
It starts with a dream when you approach the first lady love of your life. You make her smile as she giggles you feel the beauty on her face which is so natural that is makes you "aww" at the same time.
But as day by day passes the equations turn up serious and mature but the circumstances, conduct, and acts make it very variable for both of the partners. We are considering the case where guys are just then it is obviously the girls who will leave them for sure because of several reasons. Most obvious is that they do not feel the same way anymore.
Secondly, they might have gone into a relationship with another guy way back. It is really depressing to know but the pro-women brigade says that she was waiting for the right time to call it off as it was a wedding time.
Thirdly, she might be a lesbian or bisexual, and since you are just straight she would never get a chance of doubling. Now no need for the pro or against argument mode on this topic because we are living in the LGBTQ era and even though you do not accept them particularly not being conservative they do exist for humanity's sake.
Now if it is school time you can protect your heart by getting attracted to another schoolgirl. Be sure that you do not get serious this time.
If it is college time and you got committed towards her then you will get broken from inside. You will transform from a sweet chin clean shaved chocolaty boy to a neo bearded man who is tough now and is suspicious towards even an innocent lady who might have an interest in him. But is not her fault nor his .....right isn't' it?
Now even after marriage, you are not guaranteed a happy and stress-free personal life where there is financial, emotional, physical and psychological satisfaction. We have seen marital affairs, divorces, estrangement or even no-talk or physical contact marriages.
This does not mean in totality that the institution of marriage has failed altogether but both the persons were not ideal for which other and to accept the reality, letting go of it. It is not impossible you just need to be real that's it.
Now in all these cases or with due to respect to any new reason how to move on even though being single. Just forget her! Try to remove her from your life completely. Never ever think of her and even you do than remind yourself of what happened and who was the one to ruin or end the relationship.
Forget her just for your own sake otherwise, you would not be able to survive much without having a meltdown. She was never yours and if she was and you were not wrong then she would have come to you and just said "let's make it work again", "Baby, I love you and cannot live without you".
Forget her until you find someone who is unconditionally yours only and trust God that he will make your collision on the cross pathways of life with such a person very soon. Till then keep forgetting her as she was never yours.
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