This is something on which I really wanted to have a say. I have found people having loads of different perspective towards it.
Even I feel many times, a bit confused about having a genuinely specific opinion on it.
Well I think, there is no direct connection between Love and Sex, save for the fact that some people choose to have sex only with people they feel love for.
As someone had rightly said- 'Sex may make you hot, but it's Love, that keeps you warm.'
Sex I guess can be a physical thrill for a night or a few encounters, but love can be an ecstatic adventure of a lifetime.
But then as I said, there are very different opinions and a kind of confusion about how they connect.
I have found many times and have believed that both Love and Sex are almost interchangeable.
I mean, you can assume that if sex is present, then love is as well & I think This can lead down to some very rough roads.
But on the other side of the coin, many a time my mind thinks that both are not connected at all, after all, you can easily have one without the other, without any lasting effects.
At the end of the day, this creates a bucket full of confusion and our mind starts to go around every way searching for the connection between both.
Ultimately, I think
Sex is more meaningful with love. Sexual Desire is one way to show love to another person. There is nothing more to it.
Even if you physically enjoy it, there will be a level of emptiness that comes with sex, when love is absent.
There is no real meaning to it. Even you know that it leads to nothing else and nothing big.
However, when you love the person that you are with, it takes the sexual experience to a deeper level. Emotional needs are being met as well as physical needs.
So, finally what I think is that it is hard for anyone to remove love from the sexual experience, as it is nearly impossible to do.
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LOVE AND SEX are CONNECTED. You can have sex without being in love, but it doesn't lead to any positive long term solutions.
Instead, Sex without love opens up the door for many difficult and Emotional confusions. In the same way, if you are in a long term romantic relationship, eventually sex comes into play.
So One without the other will not work for anyone of us in the long term.
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