Day scholars at schools are way fond of independence till the time they are at school and find themselves governed or ruled by their parents. They want to enjoy the life and admire the life of living at hostels where they can be awake till the dawn and breaks and can sleep till it is mid noon and can use phone without any limitations and objections of their guardians.
But, by the times one enters the hostel, the feeling of homesickness, loneliness and the emotion of being left out stands to cover the newly became hosteller. It is nothing but a very hard time for the students who have just entered the life where one has to take care of himself and behave as an adult, and from a life where he was being pampered, taken care of and had the legacies of a kid. Emotional and mental breakdowns are way common and it poses as a first challenge where a person has to collect himself and face the life.
However, the strength shown at this time yields results and definitely makes a person rather stronger, and he soon starts to understand the concept of family, the value of love, the need of care, the reliability of one’s own self and very rapidly the pros of hostel life get in play. The friends do not let the lack of warmth of family effect. A good company in hostel makes one more focused on what you want and even makes you more ready for the world as you very well get to know, while living at hostel that basic requirements of life requires money and in turn hard work.
Hostel life may be very deceptive as well. Liberty is not an easy responsibility to handle but with correct focus and a sense of morals and the capability to balance your deeds can do wonders. Hostel life is indeed very important and missing it out in one’s life actually means a loss.